I have been doing a lot of thinking during my FB enforced hiatus from Facebook. And what I have realized is just how much time we (the human race) spends trying to give the impression our lives are perfect, sharing every little thing (drama, joy, etc.), and otherwise posting to social media. We give our social media presence so much priority over the relationships we have in real life. We struggle to create this persona that, for many (not all) is what we want to be rather than who we truly are. We allow the little dramas we read about to become our dramas. The fight we witness between others on social media become our fights. We allow social media to become our new lives and, oftentimes, our real lives are neglected. Forgotten. We work so hard to please people we don't know that we become people our loved ones no longer recognize. And that is heartbreaking. I have realized that FB does not sell my books. And, being an author, that is part of my "job" - selling my books. I realized that I LOVE my life! And, I have reconnected with me again. I kept saying how much time flies and how quickly my boys are growing up, but over the last two weeks, I have not missed a moment in favor of being on social media. It is refreshing to not be tied to the next "brilliant" post or to worry about stats and whether my outreach has met a level that experts consider "successful." And, I have readers emailing me, saying they read my book and are looking forward to the next release (which is coming). I am able to LISTEN more, and truly hear from my readers because the noise of FB and the worries associated are no longer drowning out the sounds and sights of my life. I am able to think again, and focus on my writing. And while I miss my friends on FB, those who care have reached out in other ways, ways I can see and hear. And I love that! I am still fighting to get back on FB. My author page is not active because FB is not allowing anyone to post on my behalf. But I promise I am fighting, and, hopefully, I will be back soon. But, in the meantime, you can reach out to me via email or Twitter, Instagram, or here on my website. Thank you, all, for your continued support! Love, hugs, and wishes for a beautiful day to you all.
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Christine Bailey
8/3/2019 06:29:49 pm
Hey Ashlee, I just came across your email. I didn't realize that happen. I've been off FB myself, but my reasons are different. Focusing on family and getting my series completed. I completely understand you. It makes you realize what is really important. I hope you get FB back soon. You are never far from my thoughts even though I get caught up in what I am doing. I'm forever grateful for you helping me in the beginning. You take care. Love Christine (Emily Foxx)
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